Here we go again!

WTF?!!! Oh my hell, he is definitely Psycho! So 3 days ago he cried and begged me to come back, hell he even asked me to merry him! I told him the only single way I would consider it is if we go to counselling. He flat out said NO. Ok fine then that is your answer. So then yesterday he text saying he is going on vacation to Miami and living it up. Ok, have fun :-) But then today . . . He text me trying to accuse me of cheating on him while we were living together with some "tall white man" I supposedly been talking to while he was working, "and we found your fat girl friend that her man is in jail" is what I get after he text me that he loves me this morning. Seriously? FIRST of all, I do not know any body in his town except those he has introduce me to, especially some "tall white guy" named (hold on, let me check the text) . . .  "Charley". SECOND, He knows where I go and when I go. His car that I drove has Satellite so I know he can check on me anytime. Plus, the house has a security system that alerts him via txt every time I come and go out of the house. He always knows where I am and who I am with so it would be idiotic of me to even try to cheat on him even IF I wanted. On top of it all he has told me that he has checked my phone records and email with out my permission!! THIRD, If I was cheating then wouldn't it make sense to go back when I was scheduled to and then leave him for this other person I am supposedly seeing?! And FOURTH, after dealing with him there is no way I want to even try to date or talk to any other men anytime soon or the near future. He is enough headache to last me months. So ladies and gents, this is one small piece of what I have to deal with and why I have feel out of love from him. He seriously needs help but I'm afraid he will never get it. I just hope one day he sees the light.
God Bless you and God help me - Seriously